Why do we have funerals? The person who has passed away is no longer there to witness what people do in honor of their memory; then why the extravaganza? Funerals are not about the person who is no longer with us but the memories in which they continue to live on forever. The somber event is out of respect for the life they lead and the moments they left us to cherish with.

Here is how you do justice to a soul that had just reached the heavenly abode:

Start the healing process

Death is hard for everyone, especially the near and dear ones. Whatever you do at the funeral should kick-start the healing process rather than dwelling on the past and maybe thinking about how things could’ve been different. Share the unforgettable moments spent with the person and talk about a funny incident. It is not heartless to make the widow smile!

Show and tell

As strong as sharing memories go, showcasing a prized possessive or a gift from the person brings back a number of memories and is a great way to honor the departed. Those who have received anything, valuable or not, from the person would be taken back down the memory lane. Not only are the people associated with the object/gift are left lingering in their thought town but also makes them realize how they should leave mementos, both objective and not to people they care about.

Let the loved ones take the center stage

If you are in charge of the proceedings make sure that all the attendees get to know who were the loved ones of the person who is no more. People in grief would definitely feel better with the attention they receive, be it from known or unknown people. Share any meaningful moments about how the dear ones meant a lot to the person they just lost.

Personalize their final resting place

Nothing makes justice to a departed soul other than personalizing their final resting place. Be it a crypt or a coffin, make sure your find the right funeral products to ensure that it is personalized to reflect their taste and the family members are reminded of their loved one even years after their demise.